I wrote a few days ago that T-1000 (aka, German Guy) looks a bit like the bad guy character in "Terminator 2", (scroll down for pic) but realized tonight that that's not quite accurate. He's really much cuter, and doesn't have that harsh, steeley gaze. And he's three years younger than I am. Can't argue with that.
Go figure – I liked him more than I expected to. He’s very sweet, and easy to talk to. He's only been living here for three years, but knows a lot more about New York than many locals who have been here their whole lives.
We first went to a swank cocktail lounge, then to a more mellow wine bar. I have to admit -- there was a part of me that was nervous about running into This Guy from last night. (aka, Mr. Lover) As I often note: for a big city, New York can be a very small town at times. Luckily, there was no such run-in.
We had a very chaste kiss on the cheek goodnight, with a short, brief kiss on the lips. I’m always looking at the potential for long-term – and it sounds like he’d like to move back to Germany at some point. But for now -- he's sweet and fun, so why not? We already set a date for later in the week.
Very funny conversation earlier with my favorite guy friend, 4. He texted me saying, "Congrats on the sex!". I called him back, and we discussed our most recent adventures in dating.
He recently had four dates with a woman he really likes – while they’ve hugged and have been semi-intimate, they haven’t “really” kissed – no French kissing as of yet. VERY unlike him! He went on about how he’s in no hurry, enjoys holding hands with her, etc…
Me: "I’m sure you’ll kiss her on the next date."
Him: "NO… I want to fuck her on the next date! If you haven’t eaten in a week, you don’t eat just tapas… you want the whole paella!"
Gotta love an honest guy.