It’s been a fun-filled weekend:
Very good date with Cute Dork – who I’m now renaming Sexy Dork. He’s kind of goofy, kind of quirky and much cuter than I had expected – a nice package. He’s generous with the compliments, which is always a bonus (but he’s certainly not smarmy about it). We had a casual dinner, then several drinks, a bit of dancing (ok, not his strong point – but he gets an E for effort), and some very, very sexy kissing. Very. It didn’t go further than kissing, but my imagination ran wild.
I was happy to see that he e-mailed me today, saying he had a lovely time, and would love to get together next weekend.
However – there’s a catch. He told me on our date that he ended a serious relationship not long ago, and isn’t looking for anything serious right now. I’m glad he told me that – it’ll help with staying in the right mindset, knowing that it’s just fun. Cute Jewess asked me if I’m OK dating someone who doesn’t want to get serious – and for now, I think I am. Depending on if / how things develop with UN… maybe Sexy Dork could be that fling that I've been contemplating!
Then there was the daytime date with UN, biking in the park. I like him – he has a great sense of humor. At one point, we took a break, and I realized – he’s really cute! Not GQ / model / plastic cute – but “just my type” cute, nice smile, etc.
However, with UN I feel like I’m having a hard time getting below the surface. On my one date with Sexy Dork I learned more about what makes him tick than I have in several dates with UN. (family, relationships, etc) I know -- wait and see, and all that.
That’s pretty much been my dating mantra this year: wait and see. You don’t have to decide TODAY if you’re going to marry the guy. All you need to decide is if you want at least one more date with him. I tend to get ahead of myself – and having this blog has really helped me tone that down. I’ve been enjoying the process of laying it all out, and getting your feedback. So – thanks for reading!