Good second date with UN last night. There’s some chemistry there, but not that strong instant “zing” that I had with Smiles.
I need to keep reminding myself – take it slowly, date by date. I know, I know… common sense, right? I tend to get impatient with these things. I like the zing, the giddiness, the high of being excited about someone. Just because I'm not feeling that with UN right now isn't necessarily a bad thing -- I'm just getting to know him slowly. (as I keep telling myself... I almost believe it!)
In the meantime, I need to work on setting up dates with other guys – there really aren’t any new contenders at this time. I IM’d with a new guy a few days ago and gave him my number – no call yet. Another guy who seemed promising is now out of town for the next few weeks.
And it certainly doesn't help that I have a few business trips this month -- actually, that DOES help. It helps me not obsess about dating as much!