Had dates with both Sexy Dork and UN this weekend:
Sexy Dork: This was a first for me – I had to cut the date short because I wasn’t feeling well. We met for an outdoor concert, and planned to have dinner afterwards, but I was feeling so run down from a rough week at work, I had to call it a night before we even made it to dinner.
I also found myself a little less into him. I’m not sure if it was actually HIM, or a result of my feeling under the weather – I’d go out with him at least one more time to see.
He’s a really sweet guy – e-mailed me first thing the next morning to see how I was feeling. Also (I know this isn’t everything, but it helps) – he continues to be generous with the flattery. When we met up earlier in the night, he greeted me with an enthusiastic, “you look fantastic!”.
Then there was the date with UN. I think UN is more my “type” (looks-wise, as well as personality-wise) than Sexy Dork is… but I’m having trouble getting a read on him. My overall feeling is, he’s acting more like a buddy than a potential boyfriend. We have lots in common, always have something to talk about. But he’s just not as warm as Sexy Dork is… and not nearly as generous with the flattery. Come to think of it, I don’t think he’s ever paid me a single compliment. He's not a hand-holding kind of guy... but things have gotten quite heated during our alone time (no sex yet).
Cute Jewess had the perfect advice: “you’re not into him too much to stop you from searching other dudes, but you’re into him enough to see what happens”. So that’s the plan for now. I already have a date planned with a new guy later this week.
Speaking of CJ: I had a fabulous night out with her and her kick-ass friends – we danced up a storm! As she said – they truly rock.
Oh! Today was my first Sunday weigh-in for my new 10 in 10 plan: I was down 2 lbs! Started at 138 a few days ago… today was 136. Yeah, I know – your weight can fluctuate as much as 5 lbs in a given day, so I shouldn’t take this lower number as gospel. But if it motivates me to keep going? I’ll take it!
Sounded like there were a few other potential "10 in 10"-ers out there... how was everyone's weekend?