Another date planned with UN this weekend – this is something like our 5th or 6th date, and I have a feeling a sleepover may be involved for the first time. Will have to see if it feels “right” in the moment.
I like him, but as I’ve written earlier, I’m having trouble getting a vibe from him. He’s certainly fun, funny, witty, very smart, and I enjoy the times I’ve spent with him – but he’s not the gushy type. Probably a good thing, in hindsight – it seems that the gushy guys who adore you quickly seem to disappear just as quickly. (Hello, Smiles…. hi, Big Smile, of Cute Jewess fame… ha, just realized the coincidence of the similar blog names for these guys!).
I know, I know… it’s good to take it slowly, and all that. Just give me a sign, dude!
Someone mentioned this to me recently: the main way to tell a guy is into you (early on) isn’t by what he says – it’s what he does, especially in how quickly he calls or gets in touch to plan the next date. UN has been (generally) pretty reliable in this respect.
The usual “wait and see” approach applies. (not easy for impatient me!)