I have a sudden urge to post an update, though I have no time at the moment. Full details to come!
Date #122: "NOT New Guy". A lunch date never leads anywhere, in my experience -- but due to time crunching, that's where we ended up. One of the reasons I was drawn to his J-date profile was because he resembled New Guy a bit in his photo -- in person, not so much.
If you've ever done online dating, I'm sure you, too, have had a thousand dates like this: the date was nice enough that you'd agree to see the guy again if he called -- but not so exciting that if you didn't hear from him, you'd be 100% OK with it. It's been over a week, and no word from NNG -- onward!
In other news: as I mentioned, New Guy have hung out as friends several times. I'm in a pretty good mindset with him.
And... there was one night where we wound up kissing passionately, and were very, very tempted to go home together. Not an easy decision to go home alone, but that's what I did, and I was happy about that choice the next day.
I feel more chemistry with this guy than with anyone I can remember in recent history... and I just happen to really like him as a person. But -- again -- we're just friends. (and if we're friends who happen to kiss every so often, I have no problem with that)
I'm contemplating a little fling with High School Guy (sorry, Mimi!). He's a Republican, but he's also very hot and he knows I'm not looking for anything serious right now -- AND he finds me incredibly sexy and beautiful. Our e-flirting has been getting more intense, and I'm thinking that he could be a fun companion for some of those cold winter nights. We'll see...